funny you should say that, my last girlfriend used to comment to me that she was getting bored when i would kiss and lick her everywhere. I was married for 18 years before i met her and my ex wife loved it. ....i loved it too. In fact i "discovered" the idea of massaging and licking my girl before sex BECAUSE thats what i wanted, it came naturally ....when my my girlfriend didnt want it i realized i don't do it for the girl im with i do it for myself and up until that point i was lucky that what i wanted matched what my partners wanted. i dont take it for granted anymore